There’s No Secret To Our Success… We Were Just Meant To Be!

Today is a very special day indeed. Today is our wedding anniversary  We’ve been together for 12 years, married for 5.

Quite a lot of people comment on how happy we are and how we seem to have the perfect relationship. A small few have even dared to suggest that we are ‘too loved up’ and it can’t possibly be like that all of the time. Those people stand corrected! There is no such thing as too loved up and we really are that happy.

I am extremely blessed, I know. My husband is my dream guy, he’s the whole package- handsome, sweet, loving, thoughtful, smart, funny, generous…. the list goes on. I absolutely adore him and I know without a shadow of a doubt that he feels the same way about me. I know exactly how lucky I am to be able to call him my husband. ♥

I would never tell my husband what he could and could not do, or who he should be friends with or anything like that, and he wouldn’t with me. We don’t own and control each other. We do love, trust and care for each other.

If I wanted to go somewhere and my husband wasn’t too keen on it- he would never tell me not to go, yet equally if I knew my actions would upset or cause him anguish, I wouldn’t do them anyway. I wouldn’t want to. We never put each other in a position where we would ever have to make such requests, as he is my number one priority and I am his. Absolutely everything and everyone would come second. It’s a wonderful feeling to have that magical safety net, someone has always got your back, no matter what and their love is unconditional and limitless.

We never have those silly conversations like, ‘If you ever cheated on me…’ or, ‘If we ever split up…’ No, no, no. Those thoughts never even enter our heads. We will be together forever and always. Fact. We knew that from day one. I trust him with my life and I know he would do anything for me in a heartbeat.

We never argue, we just don’t have anything to argue about. We go through tough times just like everybody else- but not with each other. It’s Team Wragg against the world. We don’t have crossed words either. He’s the most important person in the whole wide world to me- why would I ever want to say anything mean or to hurt him? You can’t take vicious words back, once they’re said, they’re said. People may forgive you for them, but they will still remember them. I would be devastated if I made my husband’s heart heavy through saying something awful. We just don’t go there. 

We value our relationship and each other. We take our marriage very seriously. It’s sad that so many people treat their relationships quite flippantly. Throw away and replaceable. When you are with the right person, they truly are irreplaceable. I would be totally lost without my husband.

And when you’re with the right person, love is easy. It really is the easiest thing in the world to be happy. My marriage is the one area in my life that is always on track. Always good  We were just meant to be.

Five years ago today, we became husband and wife. Legally our own little family. Like every bride, I was looking forward to our big day and wanted everything to be perfect. I remember being so incredibly calm and happy. No jitters or nerves or cold feet. Never before had I ever been so certain of anything or anyone. I was beaming from ear to ear. Sure it was our wedding day, but I had my eyes on the prize. I wanted a marriage with my husband, a life together. That’s what I was looking forward to. Not just a big fancy day- that was just the cherry on top of the main-event cake.

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Happy Anniversary, my love. You make my heart sing and my soul soar. You make me complete. Every single day I thank God that I have you… I really am the luckiest girl in the world to be your wife. xxx

With much love,

Miss Kimmy Cupcake xx